The Day I Realized Leadership Isn’t About Numbers

The Worthy Leader: Why Putting People First Unlocks Power and Profit

Rich Dornisch 🏳️‍🌈

Khalil Jezini 💜

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The Worthy Mindset Team 🌈

May 16, 2025

Leadership Isn’t About Numbers: When we treat people like resources—cogs in a machine

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Why Putting People First Unlocks Power and Profit

The Day I Realized Leadership Isn’t About Numbers

A few years ago, I sat in a boardroom, staring at a spreadsheet that screamed “success.” Revenue was up, growth metrics were green, and our team had hit every KPI we’d set. By all accounts, we were winning. But as I looked around the room, I saw something else: exhaustion in my team’s eyes, a quiet disconnection, and a sense that we were chasing something hollow. That moment hit me like a freight train—I’d been leading for the numbers, not the people. And it was costing us more than I realized.

Leadership can seduce you with metrics. Goals, headlines, and growth are shiny, measurable, and easy to chase. But here’s the truth I learned that day: numbers don’t build success—people do. The best leaders don’t just drive results; they invest in the humans behind them, knowing that real power and profit flow from putting people first.

The Nervous System of Leadership: Why People Matter Most

When we treat people like resources—cogs in a machine—we trigger a subtle but real stress response. It’s a nervous system signal that says, “You’re not safe here. You’re replaceable.” And when people feel that, they check out. Maybe not physically, but emotionally. They stop bringing their best ideas, their boldest risks, or their deepest loyalty. You can’t build a great company without great people, and you can’t keep great people without trust.

I’ve seen it firsthand. After that boardroom wake-up call, I shifted how I led. I started prioritizing connection over competition, listening over dictating, and investing in my team’s growth over obsessing about the next milestone. The result? Not only did our numbers stay strong, but our team became a force—resilient, creative, and fiercely committed. People aren’t a means to an end; they’re the reason we succeed.

Worthy Leadership Tool: The 3-Question Check-In

Here’s a simple system to put people first, grounded in The Worthy Leader™ approach. Every week, carve out 10 minutes with each team member and ask these three questions:

What’s energizing you right now? This opens a window into what’s fueling their passion and helps you amplify it.
What’s draining you? This uncovers stressors or blockers, letting you address them before they spiral.
How can I support you in taking one step forward? This shows you’re invested in their growth, not just their output.

This isn’t just a check-in; it’s a trust-building ritual. It signals to your team that they’re seen, valued, and safe. Over time, it creates a culture where people show up fully, not just for the paycheck, but for the purpose.

Worthy Leadership System: The People-First KPI Sprint

Numbers still matter—don’t get me wrong. But they should serve people, not the other way around. Try this system to align your metrics with human impact:

Redefine Success: At the start of a sprint, gather your team and ask, “What would make this quarter feel meaningful, beyond the numbers?” Tie KPIs to human outcomes—like customer impact or team growth.
Track Trust Metrics: Add qualitative measures to your dashboard. Survey team morale, track collaboration wins, or measure how often people feel safe sharing ideas.
Celebrate People, Not Just Results: When you hit a goal, spotlight the humans behind it. Share stories of their creativity, grit, or growth in meetings or on platforms like LinkedIn.

This system, rooted in The Worthy Mindset™, ensures your pursuit of profit never overshadows the people driving it. It’s a repeatable framework that scales impact while keeping your team grounded and connected.

The Legacy That Lasts

I still think about that boardroom moment. It taught me that leadership’s real legacy isn’t in titles, trophies, or targets—it’s in lives changed. The people you empower, the trust you build, the cultures you shape—that’s what endures. When you lead from this place, you don’t just create a company; you create a movement.

The equation is simple: People ➡️ Power ➡️ Profit. In that order. Get it wrong, and you’ll chase empty wins. Get it right, and you’ll build something unstoppable.

Let’s Reflect

What’s one way you’ve seen putting people first transform a team or project?
How could the 3-Question Check-In shift the way you lead this week?

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